New Year’s Resolutions for A Womyn’s Worth

5 Jan
1. Eat as unhealthily as I possibly can
2. Avoid exercise at all costs
3. Achieve previous two resolutions
I’m kidding. I don’t typically make New Year’s resolutions, but I think A Womyn’s  Worth could use these two:
1) Get AWW onto larger publications 
You all have seen my posts published on Ms., Slutist, Racialicious, and XO Jane, but I’d like to expand my reach. My heart is set on The Root, and I would also like to try for Ebony, Essence, For Harriet, Bitch, The Grio, and HuffPost. Having my byline on any of these sites would bring more traffic to A Womyn’s Worth and would encourage me to become a better writer.
 
2) Increase AWW readership by a couple thousand
A couple thousand may be a lofty amount, considering I haven’t been actively working to increase readership lately. However, I plan on getting AWW more active on social media networks. And as always, I will continue to give my readers the best and strive to create thought-provoking pieces that challenge opinions and ask everyone to consider alternative perspectives. Additionally, I’m hoping to create a few more viral posts that this year, so keep your fingers crossed for me.
You can help me achieve these goals by liking the AWW Facebook page and sharing some of your favorite posts.
Happy New Year!

Top 9 AWW Posts of 2014… Did You Miss Any?

16 Dec

2014 was another amazing year for A Womyn’s Worth. We’ve discussed everything from virginity to pole dancing to protesting and more. Many of the posts have be featured on various sites including the Ms. blog, Slutist, Huffpost Women,  Jezebel, Clutch Magazine, and XO Jane. AWW even got a shout out from The Root. Check out the top 10 posts of 2014:

4 Reasons Respectability Politics Has No Place in Black Feminism

beyonce-blow-stillThough I previously was a devout believer in respectability politics, I’m now saying that acting “respectable” doesn’t fix the hypersexual image that black women have, but instead adds onto it. Here’s why this type of thinking, as well-intentioned as it is, simply doesn’t work…read more.

 

So You Haven’t Heard of Afrofuturism?

AFROFUTURISMPlease, allow me to upgrade your life to a plateau of awesomeness where time travel is the norm, Androids reign supreme, and Janelle Monáe happily twerks in the mirror wearing, of course, black and white.

Picture a cultural meta-genre that encompasses some of the most incredible artists, musicians, entertainers, filmmakers, philosophers, and scholars—an aesthetic where Octavia Butler, Grace Jones, Janelle Monáe, W.E.B. Dubois, Will Smith, Michael Jackson, and Erykah Badu all take center stage with a common inspiration…read more.

 

Black Feminist Backlash I’m Tired of Hearing (Published on XO Jane)

Feminist Backlash option 2I’m not the first writer to ever be told that my work is “a load of bs.” However, as I review the comments on my writing and on the writing of other black feminists on the web, I’ve noticed a pattern of backlash. The disapproving comments usually fall into 5 main responses. And since I’m sick of reading the same old comments on every black feminist/womanist blog or website, I think it’s time to address the backlash…read more.

 

Falcon and the Human Torch: Why Black Superheroes Matter

Red-White-FalconSeeing someone other than the typical strong white male saving the day is bigger than just “diversity on the screen.” Media representation has always been an uphill battle for people of color. It’s a historical struggle: from the white actors in blackface in the 1800s, to the mammies and sambos of antebellum films, to the bitchy and irrational black women of Tyler Perry’s films. We’re still struggling for representations that don’t exemplify nasty stereotypes. So when I see a black superhero in a movie, I jump for joy…read more.

 

Where Are All the Leading Ladies of Color? (Published on Ms. blog)

TYPECASTA few years ago, my boyfriend and I sat in a movie theater in Malibu, watching the opening of Couples Retreat. When the first black actress came on the screen, my date smacked his teeth in disgust. The woman was loud, obnoxious, and senseless. Within the first 5 minutes of seeing her on the screen, the only other black couple in the theater walked out.

They were lucky: Had they stayed any longer they would’ve seen the other black woman in the movie, who was louder, violent, and even more irrational, knocking other women out of her way while she searched for her cheating husband…read more.

 

How to Date a Feminist

DATING A FEMINISTMy boyfriend and I have had countless heated feminist-related discussions/arguments. I’ve called him out on male privilege, he’s claimed I’m a separatist, and we’ve had intriguing debates on Juicy J’s Twerk Scholarship, #Solidarityisforwhitewomen, #Blackpowerisforblackmen, and cultural appropriation. After disagreeing on Grand Theft Auto’s need for playabler female characters, we had to reconsider whether or not this relationship was going to work out.  

Needless to say, my black feminist politics has impacted our relationship, bringing us closer together, while at the same time, fostering lots of disagreement. Somehow, we’ve managed to survive. So here’s our 6-step plan to dating a feminist…read more.

 

I Shouldn’t Need An Excuse to be a Virgin (Published on XO Jane)

A few months ago, my friends went around the table talking about the most bizarre places they’ve had sex. When it was my turn, their jaws dropped at my response. Then someone made a soft, “Awww,” — the kind you give a baby after she lets out a burp. It was the first time I admitted to a group of feminists that I was a virgin — something I’d been ashamed of for a while…read more.

 

Bad Girls Are My New Role Models (Published on Slutist)

Role M.Leaking topless photos, sexing in limousines, and twerking while wearing a diamond-encrusted bra will get you crowned “Queen of THOTS” (current slang for hoe) in a hot second. Rihanna’s topless photo on a French magazine cover got her shipped to THOT Land, where Beyoncé has been exiled since the release of “Partition.”

Lots of folks are concerned that these sexy singers are bad role models because of their young fan base. Now, I wouldn’t bump “Drunk in Love” in the car with my little cousins riding in the back seat, nor would I use Rihanna’s “S&M” video as a stand in for sex-education conversations. But for mature audiences, the vixens of the music industry may be some of our best sexual agency role models…read more.

 

I’m Not Giving Hollywood Any More Money

I’m not a “movie person,” but summer always brings a few films I’m excited to see. However, after writing my recent article about Hollywood’s addiction to typecasting, I couldn’t walk into a theater without feeling guilty. Every time I purchased a ticket, my black feminist conscience would yell, “Are you really going to support an industry that doesn’t give a shit about you?”

I ignored her at first, but after the disappointments from the latest movies I’ve seen, X-men: Days of Future Past, Think Like a Man 2, and Godzilla—I’m officially done with Hollywood.

I’ll save my movie money for an industry that isn’t going to regurgitate stereotypes wrapped in lame, white-washed plots.

I have 3 main reasons: read more.

 

Finally, I want to say thanks to all of my readers. I’m so grateful for your comments, criticism, Facebook and Twitter likes, shares, and retweets. I promise to continue writing interesting commentary in 2015. Additionally, I have a list of publications I’m aiming to write for. I’m so excited to take AWW into it’s third year.

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Most Powerful #BlackLivesMatter Protest Moments

11 Dec
As I discussed in the previous post, Why Protesting Matters, the demonstrations across the nations and around the world against the killings of unarmed black men and women have been powerful. And they have not stopped.
So far, people around the world have been shutting down malls, freeways, street blocks, bridges, and many other places, to let our nation know that BLACK LIVES MATTER. Take a look at some of the most inspiring protests so far:
1. Ferguson protesters in Boston shouting “we see you” to inmates in a local jail.
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2. Protesters in Ferguson protecting local stores from looters
ProtestProtectingStores
3.Wal-mart employees across the nation stage sit-ins on Black Friday
ProtestsWal-Mart
4. Protesters in Ferguson “Die-in” and shut down an entire mall in St. Louis on Black Friday
ProtestDieIn
5. Protesters in New York carry mock caskets for all the black lives lost to racist police
Protest MockCasket
6. #Blackout Black Friday Protesters in the Bay Area shut down Bart
ProtestBart
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I recently found a newer protest happening this Friday at movie theaters across the nation to boycott the movie Exodus. I’ve discussed the whitewashing of black history and the casting of white characters for black roles in Why I’m Not Giving Hollywood Any More Money. Movies like Exodus show that Hollywood doesn’t give a shit about black people. Our dollars are powerful and shouldn’t support blatantly racist crap like this. So check out this protest:
ProtestExodus
Finally, if you saw any protests that inspired you and did not make my list- drop a note with link in the comments section.