Reebok Dropping Rick Ross Isn’t Enough

30 Apr

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After Reebok terminated their endorsement deal with Rick Ross following his lyrics that supported rape, Emmitt Till’s family began to pressure Mountain Dew to stop sponsoring Lil’ Wayne, in response to his lyrics “beat that pussy up like Emmit Till.”

They mimic women’s activist group UltraViolet* and their strategy, which pressured Reebok to cancel their deal Rick Ross.

Kudos to UltraViolet. They protested (real protests, not the lazy and trendy internet protests) outside of the Reebok flagship store in New York with anti-rape signs, and eventually impelled Reebok to make a move.

They demonstrated that real activism does make a difference. They found a way to target rapper’s wallets (since money replaces morals in commercial hip hop). They teach rappers to watch what they say. Their actions are inspirational and should be celebrated.

Yet, dropping Rick Ross is not enough.

Please don’t believe that all rape-promoting lyrics will henceforth be banished from hip hop. Another line like Rick Ross’ will spring up from another source (I’d bet within a year). Ross is only a widget in a well-oiled, money-making machine.

Apologies are also not enough. Prior to Reebok’s decision, several groups demanded Rick Ross to apologize. The Till family and others have been waiting for Wayne to apologize for two months now. But why are we demanding apologies from rappers? They’re not sincere—clearly, since Wayne doesn’t give a damn and Rick Ross didn’t apologize until after he lost the endorsement.  I don’t want a forced, half-assed apology. I want punishment.

Rick Ross loosing Reebok was a good slap on the wrist. But why not make the punishment more severe, and light up the pockets of those wealthy CEOs at record labels and distribution companies, like Epic Records and Sony Music, who produced and distributed the violent lyrics in the first place? If they suffer—everyone in the business suffers. When losing money is an incentive for them to correct their ways, we will see more satisfying changes.

I understand this is more difficult, as no one has found a way to target those that sit high up in the industry, not yet anyways. But there are organizations that are advancing in the right direction, like UltraViolet and FAAN Mail.  In addition, there are a few radio stations that have banned Rick Ross and Lil Wayne.

In the meantime, can we at least get Wayne and all those rappers that stood behind his words to watch Eyes on the Prize? Maybe then they’ll understand why everyone is so upset.

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*UltraViolet is an equality-demanding activist group. I’m just familiarizing myself with the organization, but so far, I am a fan. You can get more information about them from their website weareultraviolet.org. I signed their thank you letter to Reebok. If you want to sign as well, click here.

P.S.: I apologize for my April break. I had to finish my thesis, study for finals, and graduate. But I’m back to my weekly post routine and aim to bring meaningful ideas to A Womyn’s Worth each week. Hope you enjoy.

Missing in Action

17 Apr

Hey Everyone

Sorry I haven’t been posting. This week my thesis was due. Next week is final exam week, ending with GRADUATION :). So I’ll be back to posting regularly in May.     I Promise!

Top 7 Perks of Shaving Your Head

28 Mar

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As bald and buzzed cuts become increasingly popular, women are daring to shave their heads. I’ve worn a buzzed cut for nearly 3 years, and I have to say: it’s been a psychological, emotional, and amusing experience. I had to adjust to a different look and reactions that I got because of the new look. Hair is major part of a person’s identity, and there are implications whenever someone drastically changes their hair.

And honestly, there are so many advantages to having no hair.

1. Everyone thinks you’re the most confident person in the world

People see bald/buzzed cut women and assume they are the most confident beings on the planet. It’s the bald woman’s stereotype. And I say, just go with it. Exude that confidence.

2. You don’t have to be afraid of water

On a rainy day my freshman year, two black friends and I ran back to our dorm from main campus. Our white friend trailed slowly behind.  When we got there my white friend jokingly said, “So, are black girls afraid of water?” I know that wasn’t the most PC thing to say, but it was funny and held some truth. If our hair is styled a certain way, we avoid rain, swimming, and exercise. Prior to cutting my hair, I often had to choose between straightening my hair and exercising. I hated deciding between the two because it seemed like such a shallow decision. Now I exercise whenever I want, and sometimes (rarely) I’ll even swim.

 3. Being bald weeds out shallow men

Bald is not the average type of pretty. I used to worry that men wouldn’t be attracted to me because I had no hair. And that may be the case. Some men prefer women with long hair (their loss). However, I’ve noticed the types of guys that are interested in me have a certain personality. Often times they are more open-minded, sophisticated, down to earth, and sure of themselves. (Not to say I don’t get my share of “Aye where yo boyfriend at?” That still happens—but I could spend a whole nother post talking about that).

4. Your hair is ready for any occasion

Ever have those days where you get dressed, look in the mirror, and you look absolutely stunning from toe to hairline—and then you’re hair just kills it? Buzzed cuts look perfect almost all of the time.

5. Less time and money on hair products, weaves, salon appointments, etc.

If I could take back all of the hours I spent in the salon or in front of the mirror braiding, twisting, straightening, or wet-setting my hair, I’d be a published fiction writer by now.

I know I don’t have to go into detail about the time that goes into maintaining hair. I also know I don’t have to talk about the price of a weave or any other style that requires time at the salon. Meanwhile, I can cut my own hair in less than 25minutes. Or, I can go to a barbershop and get it cut for $20.

 6. You get showered with complements

Not to seem cocky, but I always get things like “I love your style,” “Not many people can pull that off,” and “You are so beautiful.” I didn’t receive that much attention prior to cutting my hair. Buzzed cuts are bold, edgy, and make a statement. You always stand out when you’re the only bald girl in the room.

7. You’ll inspire others

I’ve noticed that people are inspired when they see women with buzzed cuts. It gives some women the reassurance that they can cut their own hair. Sometimes seeing an example of a unique form of beauty inspires others to express their own rare beauty.

Tips for women who want to cut their hair:

  • Keep your natural hairline. Some people disagree with me on this one. Really, it depends on your face. I have my natural hairline and I love it. If you’re unsure. I would keep it when you first cut it, and if you don’t like it, you can change it.
  • Just do it! I absolutely love being bald. I’d encourage anyone who is thinking about cutting their hair to do so. You’ll probably look FABULOUS.

In case you were wondering, here was my first haircut. It’s gotten shorter and shorter since then.