4 Natural hair mistakes you learned from your mother

28 Sep

GIF OopsSix years ago, I shaved my head bald and didn’t look back. I rocked that buzz cut until a few months ago when I wanted to mix things up and grow my hair back. I decided to go 100 percent no-heat natural this time rather than the press and curl I’d worn in high school and part of college. Yet after several years without hair, I didn’t quite know how to take care of the new growth. I went back to methods from the ’90s that I’d learned from my mother. Luckily, friends helped me quickly realize my main mistakes.

Mother always knows best… but you may have to school her on a few natural hair faux pas.

1. Your mama’s hair grease isn’t always your friend

Remember when super thick hair greases like Dax and Blue Magic were your mother’s go-to product for greasing your scalp? Read more…

Hey Fam! I published this article on Blavity.com, so check out the full list and see what hair mistakes you’ve been making.

The Hilarious Black Podcast You Need to Download ASAP

1 Sep

The ReadI would go in on that trash you call the VMAs, but I know two folks who can do it way better than I could.

I may be 10 million years late on this one, but I just recently found a new love for podcasts, especially one called The Read.

 The Read has me on the edge of my seat just waiting for Thursday to roll around so I can hear a new episode and laugh my butt off at this week’s shenanigans in pop culture, Black Excellence, thoughtless politicians, and more. This podcast can make you smile even on your worst days.

On The Read, internet personalities Kid Fury and Crissles give their “read” of pop culture and have mastered the art of “throwing shade and spilling tea,” as they say on their site. But it’s not just their review of what’s going on in pop culture that’ll make you want to download their free weekly episodes. They also do a fantastic job of covering issues on race and gender. You’ll hear discussion on everything from Drake’s slaughter of Meek Mill’s career to the recent news on the Black Lives Matter movement.

So whether you’re stuck in traffic or chilling at home, check out The Read.

The podcast comes out nearly every Thursday and you can find it on iTunes, iHeart Radio Talk, Soundcloud & Stitcher.

Shout out to my best friend, Aliya, for putting me up on The Read. Aliya is a black millennial world traveler currently living, working, and managing her blog in London. She’ll give the best details on best places to visit in and around the UK, her travels and her fun experiences on dating, learning to cook and getting comfortable in a new culture at autobeme.wordpress.com

Also, share with me your favorite podcasts. I need a few more to add to my list.

Why You Should Hop on the Janelle Monáe + Wondaland Bandwagon

25 Aug

WondalandJanelle Monáe = Natural hair goddess + activist + amazing singer + spunky dancer + leader of Wondaland Records.

She and her Wondaland crew, artists she hand-picked to join her label, have been touring the country showcasing their new music.

And they are FIRE! 🔥 🔥 🔥

I got a chance to see them last week when they stopped in Los Angeles. Unlike other concerts and music festivals I’ve been to, where the artists play there music in the background while they lazily half-sing along to the lyrics, Janelle actually gets into the performance. She sings live, dances along, and has a lot of fun on the stage.

Everyone in Wondaland, Jidenna, Roman GianArthur, St. Beauty, and Deep Cotton, also has an electrifying stage presence. Between the vocal skills of St. Beauty and Roman GianArthur to the fun lyrics of all of Jidenna’s songs, to the energy Deep Cotton had on the stage, the show was EPIC.

These up-and-coming artists are extremely impressive.

Jidenna
You may have caught this beautiful man in Janelle’s “Yoga” video, or, checked out his song “Classic Man” and the remix with Kendrick Lamar. Not only does he have the face of an angel (a very sexy angel) and the style of the gods, he’s pretty fun to watch on stage. He cracks jokes and his songs are all catchy.

Roman GianArthur
When I first heard Roman on Jidenna’s “Classic Man,” I thought he was another rapper—but actually, this man has a smooth voice. With guitar in hand, his songs will give you the feels.

St. Beauty
Everything about St. Beauty is, well, beautiful. They have soft, angelic voices and striking looks p. They’re hair would be included on anyone #NaturalHairGoals Pintrest board. Basically, Black Girl Magic oozes from their pores.

Deep Cotton
I couldn’t quite make out what Deep Cotton was singing above their loud rock music, but they were quite entertaining to watch. They are the epitome of the “carefree black man,” and they enter a genre that isn’t quite as welcoming of black men.

Not only are all of these artists talented, but also, they contribute to the #BlackLivesMatter movement. In every city the crew performs, they also march and protest with local organizers and activists. They’ve also put a new song called “Hell You Talm Bout,” which highlights recent cases in police brutality.

Wondaland = Talent + Consciousness

After seeing the show, I’m about to go buy their EP, the Eephus.

By the way, they have a few more shows coming up. Visit their website to see if you can get tickets.